how to stop thinking about someone you like?

*tiup *tiup *sapu *sapu

keyh siap ! berhabuk gila laptop and blog ni yang da berapa lama ta bukak. busy la sangat . mana tak nya asal ada masa ja layan movie ngan drama yang makin melimpah ruah dalam lappy ni hah . padahal buku , nota-nota slide law ngan fiqh yang semakin gemuk dalam beg buruk tu ta hingat plak kan . apakan daya . bila benda lagho jugak yang lebih diutamakan . so , akibatnya menggeletar satu badan sume bila leture tadi . buat pulak madam tanya chapter lama . hadoi , naya naya . nasib ta kena panggil . jadi tawaduk serta zuhud la senang cite . ta pandang mana da . beli nips pun ta makan . so , moral of the story , kurang2 kan la ikut desire and nafsu na isi masa free tengok movie ngan drama . lagipun tinggal lagi berapa masa ja pun na abis sem . habis 18 / 4 . memang la hepi yang teramat sebab bole balik awai dari ipah . tapi hakikatnya lagi takut sebab nya mase na revise subject kejap ja . assignment , portfolio ,  forum , public speaking , kuiz ngan presentation fiqh ngan qawaid pun ta siap2 . sampai na mengeluh pun  rasa penat . redho je la . na patah balik pun ta bole da . so, teruskan je la .

so , sangatlah lari dari tajuk yang sebenarnya na kongsi hari ni . let's start .

cite nya start dari minggu lepas bila madam Azlina suruh kitorang ready untuk public speaking . madam kata cari la tajuk yang menarik and dekat di hati . so sangatla serabut na cari tajuk . last2 ak ready empat tajuk :

1, early marriage
2. broken family
3. love at a young age
4. how to choose your partner

nampak poyo kan tajuk ak ? haha . sukahati aku la . so , da beria2 cari isi , tengok2 ada kebanyakan tajuk da orang amik . memandangkan tajuk kitorang ta bole sama , aku pun cuba la cari tajuk lain . so disebabkan esoknya tu aku kena submit speech tu , kelam kabut la cari malam tu jugak . so , guess what ? aku jumpa tajuk yang sangat la terkena batang hidung sendiri . makan dalam weyh . seyes cakap .

HOW TO STOP THINKING ABOUT SOMEONE YOU LIKE

wuhuu . sangatlah terasa bila baca . why ? mostly aku pernah buat . haha . senang citer ak sedang buat .isyh2 . buat malu ja . so , history nya bermula dari sem lepas aka taun lepas la kan . should i just call him 'z'  ala2 nama aku gitu . haha . seyes ta malu .  ah , abaikan . sambung balik . aku gi satu program ni and patut la dirahsiakan kang kantoi lak sape 'z' tu kan . dia duduk betul2 depan aku . so , cam biasa la aku menjalankan hobi aku yang sangat ta bagus dan annoying - menilai orang di sekeliling-  dan aku tau tu sangat annoying . so , apa pandangan pertama aku terhadap si budak ini ?

1. dia nampak cam budak malas
2. dia budak nakal
3. dia sangat slumber
4. ta suka cakap dengan pompuan
5. suka ikut pala sendiri
6. da ada awek - ni aku taleyh terima walaupun hanya pandangan aku

kalau na list pandangan aku sangatlah panjang . orang lain pun konfem ta berminat na tau kan? so , apa yang penting adalah HE REMINDS ME OF SOMEONE ! hakikatnya aku da try macam2 cara na lupakan someone tu tiba2 lak 'z' ni pulak muncul . and perangai dia sangatlah sebijik ngan someone and sejujurnya i hate the fact yang both perangai sama walaupun orangnya lain . sepanjang program tu aku usya ja dia . yela kalau aku ta pandang dia ak na pandang mana da dia duduk depan aku, haha . alasan2 . truthly , he catches my eyes totally , fully , secara keseluruhan la senang citer . and amazingly , i totally forgot bout 'someone' disebabkan 'z' . sekali tu aku na balik perak , and masa tu aku demam . even ta larat pun gagah gak na balik . tibe2 ja teringat kat dia . and guess what ? masa ak turun tangga ktm tu , HE IS THERE ! AND IS LOOKING AT MEEEEEEEEE !!!! arghhhhh . gelabahnya aku waktu tayah citer la . rasa na tertonggeng ja kat tangga tu even diri sendiri tahu yang dia bukan ada niat na tengok . ntah2 dalam hati dia cakap : " mai mana lak alien purple ni ? kalau boleh sume na warna purple .dari atas sampay bawah " . so i exitedly update status kat fb bile sampai rumah . uhuhuh . TA MALU !!

smpy suda~ td sye trnmpak awk.sye pndg awk,awk pndang blik.hehe >,<

and

What makes you so beautiful, is you don’t know how beautiful you are to me
You’re not trying to be perfect
Nobody’s perfect, but you are, to me
It’s how you take my breath away
Fill the words that I don’t say
I wish somehow, I could say them now

and

If you just realize what I just realized,
Then we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized.
We'd never have to wonder if
We missed out on each other now

ta matured nya pangai .  awww.  haha jujurnya banyak lagi post . sangatlah mngada-ngada and gedik even bukannya selalu jumpa pun kat kampus . tapi hari ini even ta jumpa pun tapi member cakap hari ni dia pakai baju sama kaler ngan aku . huhu . what a coincidence . tapi sekali tu aku pun try la cari fb dia setelah dipengaruhi oleh classmate aku . waaa . nyesal aku bukak fb dia .  why ? sebabnya

1, dia budak sekolah agama - i'm afraid of budak sekolah . selalu rasa rendah sebab diri sendiri sekolah biasa
2. i think he's smart student
3. i think he's already has a gf - taleyh terima !!!

 and setiap kali aku nampak mesti dia tengah cakap ngan budak pompan . sangatlah contrary dari apa yang aku expect and aku baru sedar yang he's totally not like 'someone' . so aku kena la accept reality tu . so , i should try to forget him , right ? so , sini aku na kongsi sikit public speaking aku yang sangatlah dekat di hati bak kata madam Azlina even bukan originally dari aku and totally aku copy dari tenet tapi aku da modified sikit la .
 credit to : http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/broken-heart/how-to-stop-thinking-about-someone-you-like

            Assalamualaikum and very good morning to my lovely lecturer, madam Azlina binti Mohamed Nor and my fellow friends . It is my honour for standing here in this beautiful morning to share my speech about ‘how to stop thinking about someone you like’

Ladies and gentlemen,

            Have you ever fall in love deeply with someone but that person never know your existence or doesn’t even care to reply your feeling. It’s hard being ignored by someone you like.And at other times, it’s painfully hard to force yourself to stop thinking of someone when you know it just can’t work out. Hence, what you have to do is to stop thinking about that person. Here I have a few tips that are very useful that you could use to stop missing someone and realize where you’re going wrong at the same time.

Dear friends,

First of all , what you need to do is to make up your mind. You have to think what do you really want to do. Either you want to get over that person or you just want to stop obsessing over them. Sometimes , clarity is all you need to progress and face reality.

            Secondly, you have to look for closure where you should never ignore the incident or avoid thinking about it. Instead of it , learn to accept the fact that the event had already happened. It is better to spend a day or two brooding over it by yourself and once you feel saturated by thoughts , you should let go and move on where there is a quotes says : keep calm and carry on.

Ladies and gentleman,

            Next is don’t feign memory loss. You shoud never pretend like you don’t miss that person and don’t try to forget that this person existed. So , just focus on ways to avoid getting affected by it. Other ways is try to find someone else to think about. If you want to stop thinking about someone, the easiest and perfect way is to find someone else to think about. Create a distraction and start obsessing about someone else. It’ll work wonders and I’m sure of it.

            Don’t be depressed with yourself. It’s easy to get depressed and suffer from low self esteem, especially when you feel like someone’s walked all over you. You should have a laugh yourself and enjoy a good time. Watch funny youtube videos or a comedy or even go shopping and watching movies to remind yourself of how it feels to laugh. The next way is don’t stay idle. An idle mind is a devil’s workshop. Have you ever heard it before? In this case, it’ll be the workshop of the one you’re thinking about. You do know it’s stupid to give this person any more space and time on your mind. So keep yourself occupied and avoid thinking of this person.

            You should never stalk them , online or offline.Social networks like facebook and twitters have made it so much easier to stalk exes and crushes. While it may seem like a gift, it’s still a curse. You’ll never move on unless you keep all news of this person away. Next is try to learn a new activity. Learn or do something that’s always excited you, be it playing games or joining a dance class. It’ll fill your mind with fresh, happy thoughts that’ll eventually wipe away all traces of the person you’re trying to get over.

My beloved friends,

            You have to respect yourself. This ‘ special someone’ walked all over you by treating you like dirt. They don’t respect you nor do they care about you. Do you think you respect yourself enough? If you do, why are you humiliating yourself by obsessing about someone who clearly doesn’t deserve any of your time or love? You should never cricitize yourself. Don’t try to pick flaws in yourself and find reasons for their behavior. Sometimes, some people are just selfish or they just suck. There’s nothing wrong with you. All you need to do is be confidence with yourself and always think that ‘all is well’.

            The important that you should do is try your best in avoiding romantic movies. It is totally a very bad idea to watch romantic movies, songs and shows. It’ll just stir up all those locked emotions and turn you into a sadist who loves torturing yourself. For a better choice is visit new places or go on a vacation. Sometimes, all you need is a fabulous vacation with friends to clear your mind and focus on new things. All you need to do is have fun and enjoy yourself without thinking about anything. You’ll come back feeling a lot better.

Ladies and gentleman,

            The next point is accept the fact that they have moved on. You  should always remind yourself that they’ve moved on and forgotten all about you. You know what, this person doesn’t even care about you anymore! They’re probably thinking of someone else right now. You do probably feel disgusting, doesn’t it? Well, accept the fact and let that give you the strength for you to move on. Don’t talk about that person with your friends when you are chatting. Indulge in gossip, but avoid talking about this person even if it feels sickly satisfying to talk about them.

            Moreover , you also can pretend like you are having fun. Don’t let your chin hit the floor. As screwed up as your life may seem right now, all it takes is your initiate to move on. Go out, meet people, pretend like you’re having fun and you’ll start having fun without realizing it. Next step is get yourelf a rebound relationship. . Were you dating this person? Did you have a crush? Or was it just a friend? Your ex relationship status doesn’t matter here. All that matters is you finding a way to replace them in your life. We feel bad because of the sudden emptiness that’s in our hearts. Fill that up and you’ll feel no pain at all!

            Furthermore, don’t let this person know that you’re hurting. Remember this, the clingy person who’s having a hard time moving on is the weak person in the relationship. And the more weaker and clingier you behave, the more easy you’ll make it for the other person to get over you. Do you really want to make it that easy for them? You are surely never want it to be happen. The most crucial thing is remember that it will all pass. There is no short term plan or a silver bullet here. If you want to know how to stop thinking about someone, you need to take an initiative and have patience. You may not stop liking them today or tomorrow, but it’ll happen sooner than you know. All it needs is your strength.

My dearest friends,

            If you are in this situation, it doen’t mean that you have failed in your love life. You just remember these tips on how to stop thinking about someone you like and it’ll help you realize the facts. You need to move on. This person doesn’t care about you anymore. You definitely have what it takes as long as you believe in yourself. There is a quote goes ‘sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers, and move on, you don’t have to forget who that person was to you, you just have to accept that they aren’t that person anymore’.

so , pen off .
p/s : aku baru tahu "yuki" tu maksudnya snow dalam bahasa jepun . awww . so shweeeeet

by YUKIYANA